A few weeks ago, after personally talking to our family about it, I made a big announcement on Facebook about Jasmine’s diagnosis. I wanted our extended family, our friends and even our acquaintances to understand some of her behaviors, and why she didn’t acknowledge them when they spoke to her. Initially, I was going to do this in person where possible, and individually, but lets face it, the best way to reach the widest possible audience is through Facebook.
What came next was…overwhelming. The support that came pouring out of my computer screen was a testament to the human race’s depth of compassion and kindness. It’s another point in Anne Frank’s* favor.
What struck me the most was all the offers of support from acquaintances and, in some cases, perfect strangers. I lost count of how many people offered to let us talk and vent, offered to put us in touch with other families, and most of all, offered their encouragement and belief in our strength and parental abilities. It takes a great big heart and tons of courage to open yourself up to people you barely know, and to reach out in such a way.
Russ and I are not religious, like at all, and yet I can’t help but to feel like we have been so blessed to have such amazing people in our lives. People who are so ready to accept and learn about this new world that our family has found ourselves in.
Anne Frank said, “Look at how a single candle can both defy and define the darkness.” We have a whole chandelier! A chandelier of support and love.
* “In spite of everything, I still believe that people are really good at heart.” – Anne Frank
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